With so much information coming in everyday about newer fantasies and fetishes, we really think there should be an All-inclusive Kink Guide to school us about everything, don’t we? Sometimes, we have kinks and fetishes we didn’t even know we had until we read about them and realize that we are not the only ones getting turned on by this specific thing. Indeed, there’s something new to learn everyday at the Kink School like BDSM, TPE, Age Play Kink and what not.
Don’t worry if you feel bombarded with all this information as we are trying to build this Kink guide, so to speak, where we shall try to cover as many topics of intrigue as we can. The one that currently tops the charts is Age Play and ABDL. Let’s see what it is and check if you’re into it too.
What is Age Play?
Ageplay is basically the umbrella term used to describe a BDSM roleplay kink where the Sexual Partners play different ages as per their stimulation preferences. It can be ages both younger (regressive) and older (progressive) than oneself although younger age is usually preferred and more popular among the ageplay community. There are a lot of reasons why people get into Age play in the first place. It revolves around being able to go back to their younger self and feeling the love and care that they get from their partners. Consequently, ageplay in BDSM takes a Dom/Sub dynamic automatically between the Younger and the Older partners.
Age Play can be Sexual or Non-Sexual
Not everyone who finds Ageplay fascinating views it as a kink. All it means to them is to be able to let go of the adult responsibilities and feel like a child. They like the feeling of being taken care of by someone else and just probably indulge in cuddling at best. It is more of a lifestyle choice for these people. And they prefer to live that way with their partners rather than giving a Sexual twist to it.
However, there is a great number of people who do get turned on by Age play porn. And there is nothing wrong with that either. If two consenting adults decide to try it in their sexual lives, who is to say there is anything wrong with the act? Also, to clear the air, it is not considered paedophilia as that is a different ball game altogether while this is just a fantasy being played out.
Roles in Age Play
As we already discussed, age play is an umbrella term used for all kinds of kinks around age. Now, there are a few Roles that the Sexual partners take on while involving in Age play. They are:
- Littles: Who take on the role of a child during the Age play session. They engage in particularly child-like activities like Coloring, eating snacks etc
- Middles: Who like to play teens during the age play kink session. They usually indulge in playing video games, being bratty students, sulking, etc
- Bigs: Who acquire the counterpart role to a Little or a Middle
- Daddy Dom: The essentially kinky term used for the disciplinarian who will take care of the bratty little or middle
- Siblings: It involves both sexual partners acting like siblings with an age difference during age play. It is also one of the most popular fetishes.
- ABDL: These are the Adult Babies and Diaper Lovers who fantasize being in the infant stage, involving sucking on pacifiers, being completely dependent to the extent of toilet needs. That’s also where the Diaper Lovers come in, who have kinks about wearing Diapers. We shall discuss them in a little more detail in this article.
What is ABDL?
ABDL stands for ‘adult baby’ and ‘diaper lover’ and describes a community of people in the wider kink community. It is not necessary for someone to identify as both. A person could be an Adult Baby but not into Diaper kinks and vice versa. Let’s break down exactly what it means to be an adult baby or a diaper lover.
What is an Adult Baby?
An adult baby is an adult who chooses to return mentally to a childlike state, for sexual or non-sexual activities. It describes a kind of ‘age-play,’ which is a specific form of fantasy role play where a partner takes on a different age than their actual chronological age.
Adult babies do not necessarily choose the state of being a baby, with many ‘adult babies’ preferring to play toddlers, children and even teenagers. Also, the age of an adult baby can keep changing. While an adult baby may be a bratty schoolgirl one day, a helpless newborn the next and so on.
Adult Baby products can include pacifiers, coloring books, milk bottles, cribs, and of course, diapers. Such costumes can include dungarees, school uniforms, frilly ankle socks, dresses etc.
Adult Baby behaviors include anything from throwing a tantrum at bedtime to sucking on a pacifier, playing with dolls, crawling on the floor and lots more.
The partner of an adult baby is generally the ‘caregiver’ and is usually a dominant figure in the relationship. During age play, they act like a Abdl girlfriend, stern school teacher, a dominant daddy or a babysitter.
What is a Diaper Lover?
A ‘diaper lover’ is somebody with a kink for diapers. This means that they find wearing diapers a turn-on. It may be because of the soft material of the diaper against their skin. Or they might enjoy being a nasty child who soils the diaper and gets spanked by their caregiver. They may even enjoy having their diaper changed by a dominant caregiver. This may evoke feelings of shame and humiliation, or it may make them feel loved and cared for.
Some Last Words
We hope that we were able to give some insight into the concept of Age Play and ABDL. There is a lot of conversation around it online, which you can read and identify for yourself if you think you would be interested in a kink like this. You will be surprised to find the number of like-minded people who you can discuss and explore your sexual fantasies with.
