Straight Talk: What Is ABDL? About Adult Babies & Diaper Lovers

Yesterday, I had the pleasure to interview Emma – also known as @EmmaABDLgirl on Instagram and @ABDLgirl on Twitter – about her passion: AgePlay. Her husband Hans, kink-aware psychologist and educator, joined the conversation. It was fascinating to watch Hans support Emma even though he’s not into ABDL himself.

We ended up talking for one and a half hours – about the definitions and the deeper meaning behind ABDL. About what littles and bigs enjoy about age play, about scary things like is this a mental disorder, how does ABDL relate to pedophilia and is something wrong with age players?


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Emma talks us to what her nursery looks like, what really goes on at little parties and how she works with bigs who babysit her.

I am probably asking a lot of insensitive questions but I hope the ABDL scene forgives me for wanting to get explicit – I am just too curious.

Emma and Hans taught me so much in this interview. I understand today much better than yesterday how much more ABDL is about warmth and caring than icky stuff.

Emma mentions a German carpenter who does adult baby furniture – the website is in German but you might still enjoy it with Google Translate 😉

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Sonja is a co-founder of boldpleasures. She's on a mission to free people to revel in their true sensuality by removing the stigma surrounding kink. Sonja writes about first steps, ditching the shame and how to combine kink and 'normal' family life. She's a mother of two and happily married.

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