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The Swedish Sexual Consent Law – What Vanillas Can Learn From the World of BDSM
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The Swedish Sexual Consent Law – What Vanillas Can Learn From the World of BDSM

Consent is one of the most vital pillars to a Sexual relationship, be it Vanilla or BDSM. It has a huge importance, especially in the day and age we live in where there are rape and sexual assault cases every minute. If you were to explain consent to a 5-year old and say that you […]

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Fetish as a Challenge
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Fetish as a Challenge

Humans are always seeking pleasures that soothe, it’s a basic human activity. Some get sexually aroused through different sex toys, such as vibrators, plugs, and dildos. While couples often indulge in a spectrum of sex plays such as anal, foot, and oral fetishes to summon their lusty cupids inside the bedroom.  The term raw sex […]

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Can You Be a Feminist and a Female Submissive?
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Can You Be a Feminist and a Female Submissive?

I am a feminist. I believe in the social, political, and economic equality of all genders. And I also happen to enjoy submission in my personal life. Because feminism is about choice and equity, it can encompass both of these seemingly contradictory positions. For me, being a feminist and being a female submissive are not […]

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Largest Kink Survey
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Be a Part of the Largest Kink Survey

Kinks are as natural as sex, for years I have failed to understand the dogmas and misrepresentation around kinks. Either they are overtly fascinated about or thrown into the abyss of the darkness of humanitarian corridors. Never to be talked about.  Kinks are quite exhilarating if you ask me. If your partner is tagging along, […]

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Are Kinksters Crazy?
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Are Kinksters Crazy?

Can you name any weird sex fetish you have ever heard of in your BDSM community? No, if you’re penning down footjobs into the list, that’s normal, and some people enjoy them! Let me change the question! Can you tell me the most gruesome sex fetish you’ve ever heard of? Something that made you steer […]

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Kinky USA: Bondage More Common Than Tennis
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Kinky USA: Bondage More Common Than Tennis

It is ironic how Sex, itself, in our society is such a hush-hush conversation. Even when it is the entire basis of human existence. We don’t understand what it would take away from them to admit that everyone is having sex, has preferences and likes and is also something beyond the idea of procreation, which […]

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Kink Education: Don’t Leave it Too Late
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Kink Education: Don’t Leave it Too Late

It is almost funny how we all, as educated adults, know that sex is vital to human existence and that is precisely how the generational lineage works but no one wants to talk about it. Of course there is a subsequent pleasure factor that is attached with sex too but it is one of the […]

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Alpha Subs: Letting Go of the Control Freak
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Alpha Subs: Letting Go of the Control Freak

“Hi, I’m Karen. A 26-year old boss lady banker who has been in charge of all the decisions in her life. From the age of 15, I have been an independent soul finding my way through the world, earning and funding myself completely. Even in my relationships, I have been the decision maker, dominant type. […]

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Kink Aware Health Care
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We Need Kink-Aware Health Care for Kink-Oriented Patients

Kink, also referred to as BDSM, is a catchall term for sexual activities that fall outside of the “vanilla” sex most people are familiar with. It encompasses a wide range of activities, from bondage and discipline to domination and submission, as well as role-playing, strapping, and spanking. While kink is often seen as taboo, there […]

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