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All resources regarding a kinky lifestyle. Whether it's about relationships, ditching shame or starting out in kink / BDSM.

Coming out of the Closet – How to do it?

Coming out of the closet…or is it the other way around? Every kinkster has a couple of phases when it comes to the acceptance and...

Equality in Total Power Exchange Dynamics

Underlying all Total Power Exchange (TPE) relationships are two legally equal individuals. Choosing a 24/7 D/s lifestyle means one person gives up power and...

Needs, Wants & Nice-To-Haves

We probably all recognize it from our partners in our past. People can get worked up about nothing while the more important things in...

About BDSM, Body Chemistry & Hormones

The very thought of having a little bit of kinky sex can be very arousing, but why. And what happens to our brains and...

Challenges Concerning Consent

The BDSM community takes great pride in consent. It’s the foundation that underpins all the acts of playtime, the invisible border that separates healthy...

The Void Between Hype and Help

Since the first book from E.L. James’ steamy Fifty Shades of Grey erotic trilogy hit bookstores across the globe, over 125 million copies have...

Write Your Own User Manual

If nothing else helps… read the ƒ#©≤÷πg USER-MANUAL Relationships (kinky or not) can be very complicated. It is not easy for partners to know how...

Kink Education: Don’t Leave it Too Late

People tend to look for kink education usually after they made their first mistakes. Why is that?

MeToo and Teachings from the World of Kinky Sex

Alyssa Milano’s #MeToo action shows how many women have been sexually harassed. And no, it’s not just about catcalling when walking down the street....

The Swedish Sexual Consent Law – What Vanillas Can Learn From...

Swedish politicians have taken the lead and confirmed their support for a sexual consent law that will enable more rape and sexual assault cases...