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    Veto-Based Trust: Is That Trusting?

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    A lot of people (a LOT of people, including myself) who just “opened up” their relationship, that kind of security. It feels scary to...
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    Kinky Life

    Should I Let My Dom(me) Help Me With (Self) Discipline?

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    Self-discipline, self-appreciation and help of a Dom(me) This week Hans answers a reader's question... Hi Hans, I want to ask my Dom(me) to help me...
    Young Woman Playing Chess
    Relationship

    About Love & Rules

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    The other day I came across a post on fetlife by petroglyph about love and rules. She talked in a beautiful way about the...
    Relationship

    Are we Going for Love or Divorce?

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    For me, the goal of relationship coaching is: “It’s about bringing back respect, tension and love in the relation. Or keeping the mutual respect...
    Couples at ante natal class
    Ditch Shame

    Midwives & Antenatal Nurses: Go Kink-Aware

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    I am sitting with my doula over a cup of tea, talking about my last birth experience. We chuckle about the fact that in...
    Kink-Aware Health Care does not need skeletons in the closet
    Ditch Shame

    We Need Kink-Aware Health Care for Kink-Oriented Patients

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    I remember sitting at our gynecologist with my husband after we found out that I was pregnant with my second daughter. “Congratulations, so -...
    Relationship

    Freedom & Relationship Rules (Wait, Rules?)

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    The BDSM people amongst us probably will start smiling a bit when they read this headline. But I don’t really want to talk about...
    Breaking the chains
    Ditch Shame

    Emancipated Through Submission

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    That doesn’t make sense, right? A submissive, a slave even - and emancipated? Surely this is just some kink propaganda.  A BDSM advocate painting...
    Kinky Life

    The Mismatch Between Expectation and Investment

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    A problem you will often see in a relationship is the mismatch between expectation and investment. Let me be clear: I am the first...
    Ditch Shame

    Alpha Subs: Letting Go of the Control Freak

    Sonja 0
    Hi! My name is Nicole! I’m 28 and very new to the BDSM world and community! First I want to thank you for your...
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