BDSM Training: Sex Education Revamped
Kink and BDSM have always been considered a taboo. However, with the rise of the “50 Shades of Grey phenomenon, it is clear that...
How To Align Monogamy In A Relationship
Aligning is part of the maintenance
In my practice, I notice on a regular basis that partners are having relationship-issues because they think differently about...
Polyamory: Anarchy or Hierarchy?
I read about 'relationship anarchy' and about 'primary partners' ... What’s up with that?
Answer: Roughly, you could say that on one side there is...
Fetish as a Challenge
Fetishes can be the pepper or the “itch” in your relationship.
When you read about fetishes on the first pages found by Google, you would...
Sweet Surprise: Majority of Belgians Are Kinksters
I’ve always been told that about 10% of the population were interested in BDSM. I am not even sure where that comes from anymore,...
What Does it Mean When Someone Identifies Themselves as “Primal”?
In the BDSM/kinkster scene, you will encounter the term “primal” as a self-definition.
“Primal” means animalistic, primarily in the (sexual) relationship.
In the BDSM scene, people...
Questions to Ask in a BDSM Relationship When Trying to Get...
Whether you are in a steady D/s relationship, follow the BDSM lifestyle in an open relationship with different play partners or are in a...
Kinky USA: Bondage More Common Than Tennis
Results from a recent USA sexual diversity study reveal that behind closed doors Americans are naughty!
If you’re a regular reader then you’ll already know...
BDSM & Family Life: Parents Have to Be Equals
If you’ve followed our blog for a while, you will know that we are adamant about there not being a ‘one true way’ in...
Kink Education: Don’t Leave it too Late
People tend to look for kink education usually after they made their first mistakes. Why is that?