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Freedom & Relationship Rules (Wait, Rules?)

The BDSM people amongst us probably will start smiling a bit when they read this headline. But I don’t really want to talk about...

Emancipated Through Submission

That doesn’t make sense, right? A submissive, a slave even - and emancipated? Surely this is just some kink propaganda.  A BDSM advocate painting...

The Mismatch Between Expectation and Investment

A problem you will often see in a relationship is the mismatch between expectation and investment. Let me be clear: I am the first...

Alpha Subs: Letting Go of the Control Freak

Hi! My name is Nicole! I’m 28 and very new to the BDSM world and community! First I want to thank you for your...

When Should I Bring Up Polyamory?

A Love Triangle Anonymous asks (on Tumblr): I’m dating and I’m wondering when I should bring up polyamory? I’m kind of afraid to bring it up...

BDSM Training: Sex Education Revamped

Kink and BDSM have always been considered a taboo. However, with the rise of the “50 Shades of Grey phenomenon, it is clear that...

How To Align Monogamy In A Relationship

Aligning is part of the maintenance In my practice, I notice on a regular basis that partners are having relationship-issues because they think differently about...

Polyamory: Anarchy or Hierarchy?

I read about 'relationship anarchy' and about 'primary partners' ... What’s up with that? Answer: Roughly, you could say that on one side there is...

Fetish as a Challenge

Fetishes can be the pepper or the “itch” in your relationship. When you read about fetishes on the first pages found by Google, you would...

Sweet Surprise: Majority of Belgians Are Kinksters

I’ve always been told that about 10% of the population were interested in BDSM. I am not even sure where that comes from anymore,...

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